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Monday, December 18, 2006

The Advent of Mediocrity

The Advent of Mediocrity
Word count: 1337
(The first in a monthly series of articles from me…)

My father has a series of postcards with simple quotes on the front. I recall a particular one: “People see things as they are and ask ‘why?’ I see things that never were and ask ‘why not?’”

However, in many cases, I see things as they are meant to be, but aren’t, and ask myself, ‘why?’ I am tempted to say that we live in a mediocre society but this statement might be a bit too sensational rather than functional. I appreciate class, quality, real value. Not the run-of-the-mill masquerading as sophistication. Why?

In life there is a proportion of people who want to be the best they can, but not all actually fulfil that, or even come close to doing so, for various reasons. I would chalk most of that as laziness, but for some the defence of “lack of motivation” possibly holds. Mediocrity? Jack of all trades, master of none. Not everyone is equally talented in everything. It is a fact of life that the world is never fair, and therefore people will always come to differing levels of achievement, and also have different goals in life. That much is fair. But to achieve a low level through deliberate under-estimation of oneself, and then pass that off as a major achievement, or be pleased with that achievement of sorts is belittling oneself at best. At worst, it isn’t giving enough respect to the people who put faith in you, your supporters, your teacher, your boss, your parents. To name a few. It could also be the condoning of such low standards, the tacit approval that is given for inadequate performance, that mediocrity in response to mediocrity simply won’t do anything to improve the situation.

For far too long, people have been easily satisfied with low quality. Or have been too apathetic to care, too afraid to complain, consider this too minor to give it a second thought. This is ingrained in one’s own character – whether to pursue what he believes in, or whether it is worthwhile to stand up for that. I support the idea of encouragement. In man management, you need to provide the right kind of support to whoever you are involved with. When someone in your team accomplishes something, it is quite important to praise and encourage. However, the trouble comes when the work is not really worth praising. Sure, we need to encourage to promote satisfaction and progress, but encouragement only does so much as provide a necessary effect only when used correctly. Otherwise you may be in danger of fostering mediocrity, and I think a lot of people just do a blanket praise and allow things to pass without further thought.

A prime example is the mentality of an abundance of people to poor event organisation. Should one not come to expect great quality just because they don’t seem to happen back home? A case in point, but which I stress is not solely limited to this: our Malaysian Society has been rather active one year (out of three and a half that I have witnessed) and some people are saying, “oh give them some credit, they managed to pull off some events.” Yes, but please discern, and give credit only where it is due. If little credit is due, don’t give more than that. Critical analysis should be what it says on the tin: critical in both aspects of its meaning, and a proper breakdown of the processes and events in analysis. If the events have not been organised properly, the self-satisfying excuse of “at least it’s been done” is not enough. If the members were informed too late, they were informed too late. These are clear cut instances and in such circumstances there are no excuses. If the execution of the event was not professional enough, admit it. But the problem also lies with the apathy of the society’s members. They simply can’t be bothered if an event is carried out properly. They don’t expect much either, since they have been used to mediocrity back home, where local politicians get away too easily with gross mismanagement, misconduct and inappropriate use of influence.

My question is, why should one be satisfied with mediocrity just because he was born into/lived/lives in such a society? It is the wish for high standards that drives mutual respect and improvement, and this vision should never be compromised. Easier said than done, one may say, but I would ask, so what isn’t? One has to at least put his mind to an unwavering attitude, take a side, chart a direction, and get out to do it. And not be satisfied till he reaches that point.

The International Students Association holds an International Cultural Night every year, and last year’s was exceedingly poor. However the applause was still there, people still looked quite happy to walk off after forking out cash for the ticket. They should be refunded for the mediocre stuff that was dished out. I only hope that this year’s (and every one after that) can at least stand up to the light of day, and bring back a measure of respect to the organisers/performers. Or maybe they couldn’t care less?

My HR Department doesn’t seem very supportive of feedback. When I suggested that a certain document was not correctly and equally reflected in the employee handbook, they seemed to gloss over that and gave a feeble excuse of the handbook not being a complete guide. Well, they missed out only one major point, which would take one extra sentence. Passing off incompetence like this isn’t acceptable, but on my part I think I will have to leave this for now since I cannot show my dissatisfaction too overtly as I am still new to the job! They are paid to make sure policies are informed to the employees. It is not my job to read it and know it all, but it is your job to make sure I do! So who is failing in his job? I might pursue this matter later on because I don’t wish to allow apathy and low standards to show on my part. If you want to set rules, make sure you follow it.

The UK degrees are in a way mediocre too. Some courses are so easy to pass you could close both eyes and score in the exams. The way some exams are set, the questions just repeat every year, or go through the most minimal of changes. I’m sorry, but I only have one word for that – mediocre. They praise you for this job well done, they give you good marks, but at the end of the day, it is important to be aware (and not everyone is!) that it is not good enough to be a big fish in a small pond. This is a mediocre pond, so don’t expect to be anything but!

If you see things that aren’t what they should be, have the courage to courteously point it out, and have the resilience to see it through. I hope more leaders will stand up to be counted, and in future bring real contribution to their fields of work. Malaysians who go back home should take their experience of proper practices and high quality performance in foreign environments and apply it to our social, political and economic system, and seek to genuinely raise standards. While I have faith in the establishment, I must say that I don’t hold much expectation because of the way things have been done. Social justice, genuine equality, transparent processes are still very very distant. I am only hopeful that one day when I go back home I can help to push the entire system on its way towards professionalism and equality for all.

There is no substitute for quality, so let there be none.

And I am not satisfied with the quality of this article either.

12.45am Saturday 16th December 2006

Wednesday, December 13, 2006

stranded@nuneaton

So it's been a couple of busy days as I prepare to move to Cardiff in two stages, with Christmas break stuck in between. Another thing to thnk about is when I am getting my UK licence cos I don't want to dilly-dally too long on that.

Last week, on my way to Leicester, I got stuck in a once-in-a-lifetime situation. The train I was travelling on stopped at Nuneaton (1/2 hr away from my final stop) but didn't restart. The station staff came in and said that the engine was on fire, and we calmly walked out of the carriages. A few (ok, quite a few) of us even went round to the funnel and took pictures of the fire that spew out of it moments later! The advent of camera phones...

Then through the two-and-a-half-hour ordeal waiting for the station staff to arrange a bus to get us to Leicester I met "by chance" a friend also travelling to Leicester. We hadn't met for like more than a year and didn't realise we knew each other until the introductions! But she's doing really well now and has set me thinking when I shall start making my career switch into something I believe I will enjoy for a long time to come. Nothing wrong with my current job, but let's put it this way: I don't see myself in this field in twenty years' time..?

So my time was well-spent, and on arrival I met by chance Dr. Fu Mingli who was there to fetch his wife and daughter. What another coincidence, and he hasn't taught me before either!

Got to Vila after midnight to pass her her now belated birthday present, a very soft and fluffy dog with truffles attached. I want one too!!!

Friday, December 01, 2006

可惜的风

三星期迟,抱歉。。。
三星期前,我的一个死党终于跑人了。。。一年前已经差点给他逃掉,但是后来原本会到Leeds的,又临时转到驰名的一所伦敦大学去了。好可惜,已经离开了“娘家”莱斯特。
讲讲还必须从三年前的某天,我从Freemens Common的房转到Nixon Court去,几乎见到的第一个就是那自称“竹 老”的香港人。才讲了一句英文,我就换到广东话了。My Cantonese has never been very good, but I picked up some hongkongy slang over the years....
还有什么呢?打麻将,骂人,唱K,吃火锅。。。 and a few Cantonese concepts like 饮茶,typing cantonesised chinese which takes some effort. I also got a grand toour of Hongkong and a free hotel (but pictures not included)!
第一年还好,没浪费那么多时间,但是当我们跟嘉文和Tracy一起住一个corridor时就变得天皇地乱。整天无所事事,不是在厨房谈话、打乒乓、看电视(black and white tv licence!)、打darts (year 1)、吃东西(夜宵)。。。oh, and not forgetting Ben(son) and his Grand Theft Auto -Vice City. Those were crazy days, superb time-wasters all. We had feasts from time to time with legendary people like Jackie, 慧慧, Melissa, Kana, Roger, Carmen, Aaron, Terence... the lot.

When I need to write quickly and precisely I can't do that well in Chinese... still something I cannot commit myself to do. Grrr.. those years learning it and I still take too long to think and type. And considering, my Chinese is already "very good".

Anyway, coming back, it's been stupendous having the friendship of such a candid and exciting person. Fantastic character, good memory, up for anything (mostly), eloquent and cheerful.... We all have our secrets, and it was ironic to find out exactly how much of one he had on the last day of his time in the UK. All I can say is that "ZOU DIT TONG NGO SHARE MAH!!" But we have been through betrayals (not saying anything here), disappointments (again, eerie silence), moves (Nixon to Nixon then to Lytton), challenges (badminton, etc), games (mahjong, snooker), dinners (the whole lot! Too many to mention!), adventures (walking on top of cliffs in the heavy rain in Northern Ireland with me munching on an apple; rock-climbing in Leicester; another bout of heavy rain in Hongkong) and the lost pictures (damn the harddisk).

Go out and succeed.

风萧萧兮易水寒,壮士一去绝不复返。

xmas dinner coming up

So it has been quite a rollercoaster.

In 4 games of indoor football I played I was good and poor on alternative weeks. However yesterday was quite superb when I made by best finish yet with a great thumo into the far corner of the net-- inner side netting to be precise. And then scored a late second with my left foot -- you don't see that often either. Started more sliding around, observed my sports shoes start to fall apart (holes in the top fabric) and good teamwork and positioning.

Badminton though is feeling like it's going down the drain, with a very poor game on Tuesday,lifting all the shuttles out... I need to get the right shots working, and position myself properly. Been moving poorly/awkwardly.

Still staying in newport while I finalise my move west. Soon enough I will be settling into a cool room in a spacious house with all my boxes (finally) unloaded.

Tomorrow's Christmas dinner for my department, at Hard Rock Cafe in Cardiff. I have never eaten there, though I was in them previously. I know Jackie is a keen fan of that, always collecting t-shirts. I will see if I can get him one next time when I feel like flying home.

Gotta plan for what to do during christmas days off, as well as order another phone soon. Not enough minutes to go round, man!!!